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[infomodder]

"Gone fishing."

[ so don't leave messages to ruin the after fishing glow !!!

your one stop shop for not leaving him alone, previous contact post can be found here ]

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[huntergames]

thats very good advice ill remember it
is this from experience? did your friends worry about people you were seeing?

[ Hannibal... ]

but yes i will be careful with him
we already sort of talked about how if someone said something weird to us we would talk about it

[ Although, it was more of Reggie saving his own hide... ]

[infomodder]

Sort of. Not in the same context you and Reggie are seeing each other.

[YEP]

Communication is very important. I think April told you that too, didn't she? That's what gets us through our rough patches. Sometimes it's difficult but most things that are truly important don't come easy.

[huntergames]

[ Maybe Reggie is a cannibal! Who knows!! ]

yes
i dont like fighting anyway its not comfortable
but if we do fight again ill talk with him

[infomodder]

[Time to go seaside bungee jumping then.]

Instead of hitting him?

[huntergames]

it was a reflex

[infomodder]

Might wanna work on that. You could get in trouble if you did it to the wrong person at the wrong time.

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[huntergames]

i didnt do it on purpose! i wont hit anyone

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[huntergames]

okay i am sorry really very sorry
i hit him on purpose

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[huntergames]

he was calling me stupid
i didnt mean to lose my temper

[infomodder]

Have you ever hit him before? If he's called you stupid.

[Maybe Reggie did it on purpose??? Maybe he likes being smacked around.]

[huntergames]

in the shoulder a couple of times
we were just mad at each other and we hadn't spoken in a month before that

[ Probably... he likes being scratched... ]

[infomodder]

Why not get a spray bottle? Fill it with water. Put his name on it. Use that instead of your fist.

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[huntergames]

like a cat?

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[huntergames]

he is like a cat

[ Wants attention, but doesn't want attention. Moody, kind of ridiculous despite looking cool and graceful, likes being scratched?? ]

[infomodder]

It's a nonviolent solution. May even encourage him to be nicer.

[huntergames]

im not violent
you know that!!!!!!

[infomodder]

He just brings it out in you, huh?

[Oh to be young again and to feel the keen sting of something something whatever Dumbledore said about Lav-Lav and Won-Won]

[huntergames]

hes such a weirdo

[infomodder]

Most boys are.

[huntergames]

but youre not weird
my boy friends from home arent weird except maybe jean and eren

[infomodder]

You're more familiar with those boys, right?
The longer you're around someone and the more you know their weirdness, the more you have a chance to appreciate it. Or not appreciate it. The more you can accept it as part of them. Part of what makes them the person they are. Getting to know a person means getting to understand them. The good and the bad and everything in between. In return, they get to understand you. When you can see each other, every detail comes together. Like looking a painting. You see a full picture instead of bits and pieces. If they let you and you let them.
It's a treat when you get to that point. And sometimes the weirdness in that picture is the best part of it. The backbone without which there'd be nothing to see.

[huntergames]

i guess
i dont know reggie that well after all this time

[infomodder]

You'll get there. He probably thinks the same about you.

[huntergames]

how long did it take you and april to get to know each other well?

[infomodder]

About a year, give or take. I still learn new things about her frequently despite all the time we've spent together.