[He takes a moment, voice taking on a decidedly teacher-like quality.]

Who else would?

[Independence. Confidence. The ability to know oneself without being a reflection of others, however admired they are. Valuable strength to have, despite the struggle that may come from it.]

I'd say most everyone has an opinion on the matter, whether they've been in the situation or not. In the end, though, it's you. Not anyone else. You have to carry it. Live with it. Would you want anyone but you to decide?